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Updated: May 10

Do you see me?

Blurry eyed, bloodied knuckles.

Can you hear me?

Dry throat and shaky vocals.

If I had to guess,

You can hear and see clearly.

And my offensive complexities,

Must threaten your identities.

So, you don't pity me.

No, you don't fear me.

You panic that maybe,

You're just like me.

Keep turning the tables,

And flipping your angelic fables,

I don't fear you.

No, I don't even detest you.

But I do,

Pity you.

Your small cube is air tight and cold,

Conditioned so young to be anything but bold.

A small child with fear in their eyes,

"Dare I be different and face my demise?"

Question yourself,

And challenge the system.

Let them know,

They've spent far too long,

Playing the victim.

Welcome to the cool kids club!

My name is Jamie and I'm a young (ish) transman born and raised in the Hudson Valley of New York state. I started my transition in May of 2017 and since then, I've made it my mission to live unapologetically as myself and spread awareness through my pursuit of happiness. I am the creator and writer of Spilling T blog, a proud affiliate of TransTape and when I'm not outside with the best dog ever or hanging out with my two cats, I make and sell my own beard care products through Buckaroo's Beard Care. I'm always looking for my next adventure and have been skydiving, road-tripping, hiking in the mountains and even served for a short time in the United States Marine Corps. My life has had its fair share of twists and turns and I hope to use those experiences to create helpful and relatable content that may help someone else navigate a difficult time in life.

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