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Wrapped in bright purple,

Complete with a tie.

You've never seen it before,

And neither have I.

I tighten the knot,

We're ready to go.

Are we moving too fast?

Nobody knows.

First impressions go far,

I hope you have charm.

We get in the car,

I didn't mean to touch your arm.

We smile, we laugh,

We dance, we sing,

I've never felt this before,

Can we make this a thing?

I bring you home,

A quarter to 10, I believe.

Is it unsettling to say,

That I never want to leave?

You closed the door that night,

Faint despair filled your eyes.

I wondered to myself,

Is everything alright?

We laughed, never cried,

We would overstay our welcome.

So can you imagine the pain in my eyes,

When I discovered the breadcrumb?

Welcome to the cool kids club!

My name is Jamie and I'm a young (ish) transman born and raised in the Hudson Valley of New York state. I started my transition in May of 2017 and since then, I've made it my mission to live unapologetically as myself and spread awareness through my pursuit of happiness. I am the creator and writer of Spilling T blog, a proud affiliate of TransTape and when I'm not outside with the best dog ever or hanging out with my two cats, I make and sell my own beard care products through Buckaroo's Beard Care. I'm always looking for my next adventure and have been skydiving, road-tripping, hiking in the mountains and even served for a short time in the United States Marine Corps. My life has had its fair share of twists and turns and I hope to use those experiences to create helpful and relatable content that may help someone else navigate a difficult time in life.

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